By Hazel Tan

A BOYFRIEND? WHAT'S THE BIG DEAL, FANN?
So, Fann, you want be
left alone? You want to turn your back on the local media, the
same media that helped make you what you are today.
No big loss really.
All we get from you anyway
are bland-as-tap water quotes on how happy you are with your
work.
You say you'll answer
questions about your work, not your personal life.
But what do we get when
we ask what you think of your new album, new serial, new movie?
It's always along the
lines of "I'm very happy blah blah blah."
And if we try touching
on your personal life, it's hide-and-seek time again.
You go missing. You don't
respond to paging.
Those of us who remember
your double-contract woes - when you signed with TCS while still
contracted to a Taiwan modelling agency - would ask: What's
new?
When news of that broke,
you went into hiding to avoid facing the media.
But what I really fail
to understand is, why be so secretive about your boyfriend?
Or is it ex-boyfriend now?
What's wrong with having
a boyfriend? Most women do - and are proud to show him off.
I hear from your friends and colleagues that even they have
not met him, nor have you talked about him.
Isn't this a bit extreme,
hiding him away as if you have some terrible secret to hide?
Even superstars in Hongkong
or Hollywood who won't discuss their private lives are not afraid
to be seen in public with dates on their arms.
I understand that you
need - and deserve - some privacy. If we hound you for intimate
details of your relationship, you have every right to tell us
to back off.
But is confirming that
you have a boyfriend, or that you have broken up too much to
ask?
After all, you are a public
figure.
Which means, the public
is interested in you, your work AND your personal life.
People have described
you as intelligent. You must know that this is part of the package
of being a star.
Beside, many bigger names
have admitted to having relationships.
Think Jacky Cheung, Tony
Leung (with Carina Lau), Namie Amuro, Julian Cheung and Anita
Yuen, Ekin Cheng and Maggie Siu.
The Singapore press is
no papparazzi.
We don't tail you to try
to catch you with your secret beau. Or go through your rubbish
for tell-tale clues.
If you can't take the
heat here, you should think twice about carving a career in
Hongkong, which is known for its persistent, round-the-clock
newshounds.
Have you ever considered
what bad press can do to your career?
Maybe you don't have time
to. We hear you don't even have time for sleep, so busy are
you.
But you obviously have
not learned from your contract controversy.
Which makes me wonder
when the wayward princess of Caldecott Hill will grow up? And
whether you will ever be queen.
HER SECRET LIFE
Beneath
Fann Wong's facade of a bubbly person lies an extremely private
person, it appears.
But, it seems she's evasive
not only with the media. Even her friends and colleagues claim
not to know the real Fann Wong.
Her colleagues - at least
those we spoke to - say they have never seen her in public with
her reported boyfriend.
Nor do they know whether
they have recently broken up.
Actor Lin Yisheng, who
worked with her on the serial, Out To Win, said he has "heard
about her having a boyfriend".
"But I have never seen
him. We are always joking when we are together. But she has
never mentioned her boyfriend."
Mr Jonathan Tan, promotions
manager of Hype Records, who has worked with Fann on her albums,
also knew little from her about her personal life.
He told The New Paper:
"On the work front, she is a pro. You would never hear her complain,
even if she works 24 hours a day without sleep. We respect her
for her work attitude. But off work, she's always been a private
person.."
Even Fann's close friends
in showbiz claim they don't know much about her personal life.
TS actress Lina Ng, who
co-hosts City Beat, said she has never seen Fann out on dates.
Describing Fann as amiable,
she said: "We are good friends, but we haven't reached the stage
where we confide in each other."
Another close friend,
Carole Lim, said Fann hardly volunteers any information about
herself.
"(But) she's very sincere
and cares about her friends," Carole said.
From what we know, Fann
is currently in Singapore.
But being such a private
person, she naturally didn't respond to our paging.